Sex Facts
Can I get pregnant if I have sex during my period?
It is possible to get pregnant at any time during the menstrual cycle if you have unprotected sex. Use condoms and/or another contraceptive to avoid pregnancy.
Can I get pregnant if it is my first time?
You can get pregnant any time you have sex, so always use contraception. Only condoms protect against STIs and pregnancy. See www.ruthinking.co.uk for more info
Do girls bleed the first time they have sex?
Everyone is different but some girls do bleed slightly the first time they have sex. See www.ruthinking.co.uk or visit a young persons clinic if you are worried.
Does sex hurt?
Some people may find sex uncomfortable the first time, but if you continue to experience pain after this see your GP or call NHS Direct on 08454647 for advice.
How do you know what is ok when you have sex?
If you and your partner are both 16 or over and you both consent, you are legally able to have sex. You can discuss with each other what you do and don’t like.
How do you know when you are ready for sex?
It is important that the time is right for you, so you won’t have any regrets. Don’t be pressured into it, and talk things through with your partner beforehand.
I’m nervous about having sex for the first time
It is important to be comfortable and sure you are ready to have sex as it is a big step. Talk to your partner beforehand, and don’t do anything you don’t want to.
I am worried my first time will hurt
It can be uncomfortable the first time, but try to relax as this makes things easier. If it hurts too much say stop and suggest you try kissing and cuddling to help you relax. Call Sexwise on 0800282930 for advice.
What is intercourse?
Intercourse is another word for penetrative sex meaning the penis enters the vagina. Condoms are needed to prevent a pregnancy/STI. See www.ruthinking.co.uk
What is lubricant?
Lubricant moistens the vaginal/anal area to make sex easier or more enjoyable. Use water based lubricant, such as KY Jelly as oil based ones can damage condoms.
Where can I buy lubricant?
You can buy lubricant from most chemists and supermarkets – usually in the same place as condoms. Use water based lubricant as oil based ones can damage condoms
Sex and the LawI am thinking of dating an older person but I’m not sure how people will react
Its your decision who to date, but maybe consider possible effects of the age gap, is what you want from the relationship the same?. Remember sex under the age of 16 is illegal.
I fancy my teacher
Crushes can develop for all kinds of people. As your teacher has a duty of care nothing can happen between you. Think about your classmates and peers, you would probably have far more in common with someone who is closer to your age.
What could happen if I have sex under the age of consent?
If a person under 16 has had sex with someone 16 or older then the older person is breaking the law and could be prosecuted but it is not intended that the law should be used to prosecute mutually agreed teenage sexual activity. www.ruthinking.co.uk has more info.
What counts as sex regarding the law?
The law states it is unlawful to engage in any sexual activity whilst under the age of 16. This includes sexual touching and oral sex as well as penetration.
What if I am under 16 and consented to sex?
You cannot legally consent until you are 16. Even if you agree to sex under this age it is still breaking the law although mutually agreed teenage sexual activity is unlikely to be prosecuted. See www.ruthinking.co.uk for more info.
What is the legal age of consent?
Hi, the legal age of consent in the UK is 16, and 17 in Northern Ireland. Sex under this age is against the law. See www.ruthinking.co.uk for more information.
What is the legal age of consent for gay/lesbian sex?
The legal age of consent for gay/lesbian sex is 16 in the UK and 17 in Northern Ireland. Sex under this age is illegal. See www.stonewall.org.uk for more info.
